In the Matrix of Destiny, the energy of sexuality, pleasure, and attraction is connected to the second chakra — the sacral chakra, also known as Svadhisthana.
It governs our sensuality, creativity, emotions, and ability to experience pleasure in life.
When this energy is balanced, a woman naturally becomes magnetic. She does not need to “force” femininity or constantly seek attention — her energy is simply felt by the people around her.
A balanced sacral chakra brings:
— a sense of lightness and feminine confidence
— a healthy connection with the body
— natural and spontaneous sensuality
— ease in expressing emotions
— pleasure in living, creating, dancing, touching, and feeling
— stronger intuition and emotional connection
— personal radiance and attractive energy
Very often, true sexuality is not only connected to physical appearance, but to the way a woman feels about herself internally.
What Can Block This Energy?
When this energetic area is blocked, the following may appear:
— insecurity about physical appearance
— difficulty accepting one’s own sensuality
— fear of intimacy
— feeling emotionally “invisible” or lacking magnetism
— disconnection from the body
— excessive emotional control
— guilt related to pleasure or desires
— difficulty relaxing and receiving love
— emotional wounds and relationship traumas
These blockages may cause a woman to feel emotionally exhausted, uninspired, or disconnected from her natural feminine energy.
Sexuality in the Matrix of Destiny
In the Matrix of Destiny, certain numbers reveal how sexual energy manifests, which emotional patterns influence relationships, and where internal blockages may exist.
Here, sexuality is not viewed only as physical attraction, but as:
— vital energy
— the ability to create deep connections
— emotional expression
— personal magnetism
— self-esteem and feminine power
When this energy flows in a healthy way, a woman feels more confident, present, and in harmony with herself.
In the Matrix of Destiny, there is an area connected to the sacral chakra — the energetic center responsible for sensuality, pleasure, magnetism, and feminine energy.
Through this area of the matrix, we can understand:
— how a person expresses their sexuality
— which emotional patterns influence their relationships
— where energetic blockages exist
— and what may help awaken their natural attraction energy
In most cases, the energy of sexuality and attraction toward the opposite sex is connected to the relationship channel and the numbers located in this area of the matrix.
These numbers reveal:
— how you express affection
— the type of energy you attract into your life
— your connection with the body and pleasure
— emotional fears related to intimacy
— and even repetitive relationship patterns
Each combination has its own sexuality archetype.
Some people possess a more intense and magnetic energy, while others express sensuality in a softer, emotional, or mysterious way.
When this energy is balanced:
— self-confidence increases
— connection with the body improves
— relationships become more harmonious
— the person feels more feminine, light, and secure
— and natural magnetism begins to manifest more strongly
In this guide, you will discover the interpretation of your sexuality archetype in the Matrix of Destiny and understand how to unlock this energy in a more conscious way.
Calculate your Matrix of Destiny here.
Arcana 3 — The Empress
Sexual Archetype: The Goddess of Femininity and Pleasure
This woman represents sensuality, magnetism, and natural feminine energy.
She has a warm and captivating presence, radiates effortless charm, and awakens in others a sense of comfort, desire, and emotional warmth.
Her sexuality is deeply connected to pleasure, beauty, touch, and emotions.
She enjoys experiencing love in an intense yet gentle way — valuing connection, affection, and romance.
For her, the body is a source of pleasure, creativity, and feminine expression.
How does this energy manifest?
— Attracts attention through delicacy and charisma
— Expresses love through care and presence
— Enjoys comfort, beauty, and romantic atmospheres
— Values touch, hugs, massages, and physical affection
— Possesses soft yet deeply captivating sensuality
— Prefers deep and pleasurable connections without rushing
— Appreciates details that awaken the senses: scents, music, décor, and beautiful lingerie
— Has a strong need to feel admired and desired by her partner
Love Language
The love of this energy is mainly expressed through physical touch, attention, and emotional care.
She needs to feel closeness, affection, and sensory connection in order to fully open herself.
For this woman, sexuality is not only desire — it is emotional comfort, pleasure, intimacy, and energetic exchange.
Which partner suits her best?
She feels happiest beside someone who:
— values romance and shows affection
— knows how to admire feminine energy
— creates emotional safety
— enjoys intimacy, affection, and genuine connection
— understands that sensuality also exists in details and presence
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this woman may:
— put her partner above herself
— lose her sensuality by emotionally “serving” others
— expect to receive love without expressing her own needs
— use seduction or sexuality to gain validation
— become emotionally dependent
— forget her own desires and pleasures
— feel emotional emptiness and a loss of feminine self-esteem
— become excessively demanding or emotionally cold when she does not feel valued
In some cases, she may repress her true feminine nature or constantly seek approval through relationships.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— to stop abandoning herself emotionally
— to learn how to receive pleasure without guilt
— to take care of herself before taking care of everyone else
— to reconnect with her body and desires
— to develop self-esteem and self-worth
— to allow herself to live femininity lightly and naturally
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely magnetic, creative, feminine, and emotionally abundant.
Arcana 6 — The Lovers
Sexual Archetype: The Muse of Seduction and Passion
This woman possesses a light, magnetic, and deeply captivating energy.
She awakens desire through her gaze, conversation, mystery, and emotional connection. Her sensuality is connected to the game of attraction, flirting, and the intensity of emotions.
She does not enjoy cold or automatic relationships.
She needs to feel emotion, chemistry, and inspiration in order to truly surrender herself.
Her energy is naturally seductive — sometimes sweet and romantic, other times provocative, bold, and unpredictable.
How does this energy manifest?
— Easily charms others through charisma and presence
— Loves flirting, teasing, and creating romantic tension
— Values emotional connection and energetic exchange
— Seduces through voice, eye contact, and communication
— Can alternate between softness and intensity
— Enjoys novelty, spontaneity, and different experiences
— Appreciates seduction games and romance
— Needs to feel freedom within relationships
— Sexuality connected to emotion, fantasy, and inspiration
Love Language
The love of this energy mainly happens through:
— words
— deep conversations
— declarations of love
— flirting
— emotional admiration
She needs to feel desired, chosen, and emotionally connected in order to fully experience her sexuality.
Which partner suits her best?
She connects best with people who:
— know how to keep romance alive
— enjoy talking, teasing, and seducing
— possess emotional lightness
— awaken curiosity and passion
— understand the importance of emotional and mental connection
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may create:
— difficulty making romantic choices
— emotional dependence on others’ attention
— constant need for validation
— fear of loneliness
— intense but unstable relationships
— tendency to enter toxic relationships due to emotional neediness
— difficulty building true intimacy
— frequent partner changes without real satisfaction
— emotional insecurity hidden behind seduction
In some cases, the person may use charm and flirting to fill internal emotional emptiness.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— understanding that love begins within oneself
— developing self-esteem without depending on external validation
— learning to distinguish passion from true connection
— creating deeper and more conscious relationships
— stopping the constant search for confirmation in someone else’s eyes
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely inspiring, passionate, creative, and emotionally magnetic.
Arcana 9 — The Hermit
Sexual Archetype: The Guardian of Mystery
This woman possesses a deep, intense, and highly emotional sexuality, yet she rarely reveals herself immediately.
She does not surrender easily — she needs to feel trust, mental connection, and emotional safety before opening her inner world.
Her energy is mysterious, quiet, and magnetic.
She attracts more through the depth of her gaze, her presence, and her enigmatic aura than through explicit seduction.
When she truly loves, she creates very strong and profound bonds.
How does this energy manifest?
— Does not open up quickly in relationships
— Needs trust in order to awaken her sensuality
— Possesses a deep gaze and a mysterious presence
— Values emotional intimacy above superficiality
— Enjoys conscious and intense connections
— Prefers intimate, quiet, and genuine moments
— Sexuality connected to emotional and spiritual depth
— Appreciates long conversations, closeness, and soul connection
— May be interested in tantra, energy, and spirituality in love
— Values slow affection, presence, and deep sensations
Love Language
The love of this energy is expressed through:
— quality time
— emotional trust
— deep conversations
— feelings of safety and emotional comfort
She needs to feel that she can be vulnerable without being judged.
Which partner suits her best?
She connects best with people who:
— respect her emotional space
— understand depth and sensitivity
— do not pressure her for immediate intimacy
— value emotional and spiritual connection
— know how to listen and create emotional security
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may create:
— fear of vulnerability
— difficulty expressing desires and emotions
— tendency toward emotional isolation
— emotional distance in relationships
— excessive emotional control
— constant feelings of loneliness
— blockage of her own sensuality
— cold or emotionally distant relationships
— difficulty fully trusting people
In some cases, the person may hide their emotions so deeply that they end up blocking intimacy and emotional connection altogether.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— learning to trust and open up emotionally
— allowing herself to experience pleasure without fear
— abandoning the need to hide vulnerabilities
— understanding that intimacy is not weakness
— creating balance between independence and emotional connection
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely magnetic, profound, intuitive, and emotionally unforgettable.
Arcana 12 — The Different Perspective
Sexual Archetype: Hypnotic Depth
This woman possesses a deep, emotional, and almost hypnotic sexuality.
She does not seek attention in an obvious way — her magnetism is born from sensitivity, presence, and the silent intensity she radiates.
There is something mysterious and difficult to explain about her.
She awakens in others the desire to dive deeper, understand her soul, and experience a true connection.
Her sensuality is connected to emotional surrender, empathy, and the ability to create profound intimacy.
How does this energy manifest?
— Attracts through emotional depth rather than appearance alone
— Creates a feeling of comfort, calm, and genuine connection
— Possesses sensuality that is soft, delicate, and deeply intense at the same time
— Values emotional intimacy and soul connection
— Feels her partner’s emotions deeply
— Enjoys slow, conscious, and intense relationships
— Needs trust in order to fully open herself
— Sexuality connected to emotional and energetic fusion
— May enjoy more spiritual and sensory experiences in love
— Values lingering touch, affection, presence, and attention to details
For her, sexuality is not only physical desire — it is emotional state, connection, and surrender.
Love Language
She expresses love through:
— dedication
— constant presence
— emotional care
— silent support
— willingness to stand beside the loved one during difficult moments
She loves deeply and tends to become intensely emotionally involved.
Which partner suits her best?
She connects best with people who:
— value sensitivity and depth
— know how to create emotional safety
— understand intimacy beyond the physical
— possess patience and emotional maturity
— can lead the relationship with care and protection
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may create:
— emotional dependence
— difficulty setting boundaries
— tendency toward complicated or painful relationships
— excessive idealization of the partner
— loss of personal identity within the relationship
— need to emotionally “save” the other person
— fear of abandonment
— silent suffering and emotional repression
In some cases, the person may give too much of themselves, forgetting their own emotional needs.
There may also be a tendency to experience intense but emotionally exhausting relationships.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— learning to love without losing oneself
— creating healthy emotional boundaries
— understanding that depth does not need to mean suffering
— developing emotional self-esteem
— balancing surrender and self-care
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely intuitive, captivating, sensual, and emotionally unforgettable.
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may cause a woman to:
— completely lose herself within the relationship
— always put her partner first
— accept situations that emotionally hurt her
— believe that love must come with suffering
— hide her desires and needs to please the other person
— adapt her entire life around her partner
— struggle to say “no”
— attract unbalanced relationships or emotionally unavailable people
— forget her own worth and femininity
In some cases, she may tolerate relationships without true emotional pleasure simply out of fear of rejection or loneliness.
There may also be a tendency to romanticize suffering and confuse emotional surrender with sacrifice.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— learning to create healthy boundaries
— understanding that love should not require constant suffering
— stopping the habit of losing herself in order to be loved
— developing emotional self-esteem
— allowing herself to experience pleasure, lightness, and happiness without guilt
This woman needs to understand that femininity is not born from sacrifice, but from connection with herself.
When balanced, her energy becomes deeply comforting, intuitive, sensual, and emotionally transformative.
Arcana 15 — The Devil
Sexual Archetype: The Fatal Seductress
This woman possesses an extremely intense, magnetic, and impossible-to-ignore sexual energy.
Her presence naturally awakens desire, fascination, and curiosity. She knows her own power of attraction and is not afraid of sensuality.
Her energy is fire, passion, and emotional intensity.
She transforms sexuality into art, provocation, and deep energetic connection.
There is within her an almost hypnotic seductive force — a woman who awakens hidden desires and intense emotions in the people around her.
How does this energy manifest?
— Strong, striking, and highly visible sensuality
— Enjoys provoking, seducing, and playing with emotional tension
— Speaks openly about desires and pleasure
— Has the courage to explore fantasies and new experiences
— Values physical and emotional intensity
— Easily awakens desire in her partner
— Sexuality connected to personal power and self-confidence
— Enjoys games of seduction, provocation, and conquest
— May adopt a dominant and highly confident attitude
— Loves experiencing powerful emotions and intense experiences
For her, sexuality is vital energy, pleasure, freedom, and personal expression.
Love Language
She expresses love through:
— passion
— intensity
— physical attraction
— physical touch
— sexual and emotional energy
She needs to feel desire, chemistry, and energetic connection in order to truly become involved.
Which partner suits her best?
She connects best with people who:
— are not afraid of intensity
— know how to handle strong and magnetic women
— enjoy freedom and authenticity
— possess emotional maturity
— value passion, openness, and deep experiences
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may create:
— emotional manipulation through seduction
— toxic and addictive relationships
— excessive need for control
— dependence on sexual validation
— fear of emotional vulnerability
— difficulty experiencing true love without emotional games
— extremes between sexual repression and excess
— using sensuality to dominate or influence people
— difficulty separating pleasure from emotional power
In some cases, the person may hide deep insecurities behind an extremely seductive and powerful image.
There may also be a tendency to attract intense but emotionally destructive relationships.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— understanding that sensuality is not weakness
— using her energy with awareness and balance
— learning to experience pleasure without manipulation or control
— allowing herself to feel true love and vulnerability
— transforming intensity into healthy connection
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely magnetic, free, confident, captivating, and full of personal power.
Arcana 18 — The Moon
Sexual Archetype: The Mysterious Sorceress
This woman possesses a deeply intuitive, emotional, and magnetic sexuality.
There is something about her that is difficult to explain — a mysterious aura that awakens curiosity, fascination, and desire.
She seduces through energy, gaze, voice, gestures, and the atmosphere she creates around herself.
Her sensuality is not aggressive or obvious, but captivating, hypnotic, and emotional.
For her, sexuality goes far beyond the physical.
It is soul connection, sensitivity, imagination, and energetic exchange.
How does this energy manifest?
— Soft, mysterious, and highly intuitive sensuality
— Can sense her partner’s desires and emotions without words
— Values atmosphere, music, scents, and emotional connection
— Enjoys mystery, fantasy, and romance
— May alternate between delicacy and emotional distance
— Creates a sense of enchantment and fascination in relationships
— Sexuality connected to imagination and emotions
— Appreciates deep and almost spiritual connections
— May enjoy rituals, symbolism, and sensory experiences
— Has strong emotional and energetic influence over people
She possesses a highly sensitive, changeable, and intuitive feminine energy.
Love Language
She expresses love through:
— emotional sensitivity
— intuitive connection
— gentle touch
— attention to her partner’s feelings
— subtle emotional signs
She needs to feel emotional safety and energetic connection in order to fully open herself.
Which partner suits her best?
She connects best with people who:
— possess emotional sensitivity
— value depth and romance
— understand emotions and intuition
— enjoy fantasy, imagination, and emotional connection
— respect her sensitivity and emotional fluctuations
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may create:
— excessive fantasy and romantic idealization
— difficulty seeing the reality of relationships
— emotional dependence
— fear of rejection and abandonment
— confusing and emotionally unstable relationships
— tendency toward emotional drama
— difficulty understanding her own desires
— constant mood swings and intense emotions
— attraction to unavailable or manipulative partners
In some cases, the person may live more in fantasies and expectations than in emotional reality.
There may also be a fear of showing who she truly is emotionally.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— learning to distinguish intuition from illusion
— seeing relationships more clearly
— understanding her own emotional desires
— trusting herself without getting lost in emotions
— using her sensitivity as strength, not weakness
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely intuitive, sensual, mysterious, creative, and emotionally magnetic.
Arcana 21 — The World
Sexual Archetype: The Free and Harmonious Goddess
This woman possesses a balanced, confident, and naturally magnetic feminine energy.
She radiates freedom, confidence, and lightness. Her sexuality is not born from the need for approval, but from a healthy connection with herself.
She harmoniously combines sensuality, affection, independence, and passion.
She does not need to prove anything to anyone — her presence alone is already attractive.
Her energy represents emotional maturity, acceptance of her own body, and the freedom to experience pleasure consciously.
How does this energy manifest?
— Light, natural, and confident sensuality
— Able to balance passion and delicacy
— Lives sexuality with freedom and awareness
— Has a healthy connection with her own body
— Values pleasure, intimacy, and healthy emotional exchange
— Can be intense or gentle depending on the connection
— Enjoys balanced relationships without emotional games
— Values reciprocity and respect
— Able to open up emotionally without losing her individuality
— Sexuality connected to harmony, presence, and authenticity
For her, sex is connection, pleasure, freedom, and genuine exchange.
Love Language
She expresses love through:
— presence
— emotional lightness
— acceptance
— mutual respect
— freedom within the relationship
She needs to feel balance, trust, and true partnership in order to emotionally flourish.
Which partner suits her best?
She connects best with people who:
— respect her freedom and individuality
— know how to balance romance and passion
— possess emotional maturity
— enjoy relationships that are light yet deep
— value partnership, dialogue, and reciprocity
When this energy is unbalanced
On the negative side, this energy may create:
— excessive emotional independence
— difficulty creating deep bonds
— perfectionism in relationships
— fear of losing freedom
— difficulty fully surrendering emotionally
— feelings of loneliness even while accompanied
— constant search for the “ideal relationship”
— loss of interest when the relationship becomes too intense or emotional
In some cases, the person may excessively control their own emotions and end up disconnecting from pleasure and spontaneity.
How to balance this energy?
The main lesson of this energy is:
— allowing herself to experience love more spontaneously
— abandoning the need for perfection
— accepting emotional vulnerability
— balancing freedom and intimacy
— trusting more in the present moment
When balanced, this woman becomes extremely radiant, free, sensual, mature, and emotionally inspiring.
